Decision: Standard or Deluxe? That space monkey is awfully tempting...
I'd go with Deluxe (but I'm not buying it on launch day, so what do I know).
Super Deluxe seems to have little to no value. $30.00-$40.00 for multiplayer packs. If you're going to play multiplayer a lot, then your playtime will probably overshadow the packs in the long run. If you're not going to play multiplayer a lot, then there's not much of a point in getting the packs. If you're going to play multiplayer sporadically but do not have enough time to invest in leveling your character, then maybe? But even then, the packs are spread out over 5 months, so you wouldn't be able to automatically level up super fast (as far as I've read from online articles).
Anyway, when I do get Andromeda, I plan on building my character as melee focused with biotics and/or tech (singleplayer and multiplayer); I didn't use melee a lot in ME2-3 singleplayer, but I did try it a bit in ME3 multiplayer. My only concern is taking on multiple aerial enemies; I'll have to find a workaround for those.