I'm ready to give this up. It isn't going to work. I think only 2 GC members want a DM server. Non-GC people won't join a server with only 1 person in it. Sad that when this started, after an initial influx of GC people playing, I had it to where I could just hop on by myself and enough non-GC would trickle in to get it to about 15 players. It only died because of the server issues that took forever to fix, and the fact that when I would restart it it'd just die permanently.
Oh well, I've been playing this all week and I think I'm probably done now.