Elvis January 10, 2014 Share Elvis Member January 10, 2014 I rarely share anything relating to my private life here. I have to "break character" and be serious for once. So here goes. I would appreciate your prayers while I am separating from my wife of 24 years. We have one daughter 22, so no young ones involved. Just kinda hard to be "in the middle of it" right now. There hasn't been any cheating or other sin or crime. It's just been 6 years of a slow burn of discontent. In some ways it would be easier to deal with if I could point my finger at a specific offence. I mean, I still love her, I just can't stand her....and she feels the same about me. We are still living together although our decision has been made. Even though life is different, we are continuing to be nice, since there is no reason to be angry. We are trying to be nice about the leagal stuff too. I have an attorney that will write up the docs, as long as we both agree to the terms it should be a done deal. I hope things happen fast. Like pulling off a bandaid. Its gonna hurt, make it quick. Thanks Mic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Preacher January 10, 2014 Share Preacher Member January 10, 2014 I'm really sorry for the pain of this time in your life. I personally never recommend divorce unless there has been infidelity, but I'm not a judge of your situation. No matter how easy it is, it'll still be really hard and no matter how you and your wife feel your daughter will probably take it hard, even if she doesn't show it. Make sure to be there for her through this. My prayers are with you for wisdom and peace. God bless you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oakgyrl510 January 10, 2014 Share oakgyrl510 Member January 10, 2014 It will be tough, but i hope all of you plow through this and will be happy in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
walkingCat January 10, 2014 Share walkingCat Member January 10, 2014 My thoughts are with you. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDude January 17, 2014 Share TheDude Member January 17, 2014 Divorces can be tricky, believe me when i say that the way you're doing it is by far the best way. Try to stick by it. Good luck and take care in these difficult times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turnbullTeRRoR January 24, 2014 Share turnbullTeRRoR GC Alumni January 24, 2014 Sorry to hear this Elvis. I'm going through some of the same issues as well but have small childern (4 and 5) I've only been married for 6 years but I still feel you. We are going to try to work our stuff out as well through 1 lawyer. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercman February 20, 2014 Share Mercman GC Server Admin February 20, 2014 I didnt see this earlier Sorry to hear this Elvis Hope it all works out in the end Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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