Ok.. first of all.. if Cake was there.. she should have heard the other guy being a total AS*HOLE as you so love to say around here.. and yes.. he does it all the time, he even admitted to it.. saying over and over "you are the one who kicked me for this before" so, yes.. he does it consistantly.. why? he's a jerk
oh, and yes, I blew up on Cake, and called her that after she was telling ME to shut up, but not the AS*HOLE I aforementioned.. seemed awfully one sided, so yes.. I got pis*ed off.. I do appologize for my language after that point, but at the same time, she (Cake) had called me an AS*HOLE already once before as a "Warning" so.. that is TWO strikes.. is she generally abusive, no.. was that veto proper? NO DId it do anything but fuel the real AS*HOLE's fire.. NO..
Am I sorry for what I called Cake, yes.. it was rude.. but Cake.. next time you are listening.. open both ears, not just one.