Alright now I remember Franny. Recognized the nfd tag. I'm not going to try and beat a dead horse here.
He killed me alot. I did not enjoy that.
I don't remember the guy saying much so I can't comment on attitude. On the other hand, there are alot worse people who talk alot more crap.
I don't really buy the "stacking the easy side" stuff. Most people pick the side they want to play. You want to play that side, you make that side win. End of story. It's not about the guy with the top score carrying yours or the other team, it's what you do. You don't like that your side is getting pummeled? Change how you're playing. You don't need to switch the players.