Contradiction February 25, 2003 Share Contradiction Member February 25, 2003 I won't say much in this matter as i never seem to be able to hold any relationship together, but i will leave something that might hopefully help. Someone once asked me this, "How do you define a relationship? What do you think is important in order for you to get this relationship working?" Nevertheless, i wasn't able to answer. After pondering over it for a little while, i demanded for the answer. My friend merely smiled and answered, "No one can answer this question but yourself. Think of the elements that you know you want in a relationship. None of these elements are more important than the others. However, none of these elements can function well or at all without the others. It works in a cycle. When you have realized this, then you'll be able to find a person you most likely will be yours." It took me a long time to understand what he meant. But until today, i have not been able to answer myself the first question he asked. A relationship. I know it is a little confusing, but once you get it, you'll understand. And i'm hoping this will help you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest leo February 25, 2003 Share Guest leo Guests February 25, 2003 One person cannot hold a relationship together in love. It takes 2 to tango, in the game of love where there are no rules. Love does and yet does not exist. Love can be expressed in many ways, The love for a Father, a Mother, a Sister, a Brother, a Cousin. Even love for a friend. there are 2 lines in the game of love: Love and Lust. Most commonly people mix this up, just because you have a feelings for another, doesn't mean it's love right away. It's good to figure out who you love and who you do not. It's very bad, to base what "love" is from an outsider. Even though i have heard that in love you're blind, which is very true. But the outsider could be after something, he/she could be jealous. In this life, there are many reasons along with many motives for people to do what they do. But some would rather be blind than wide awake in this horrid reality. Sadly this is what the internet is used for, to keep us blind, to temporarily keep us away from our problems. Instead of Facing them. my 2 cents In response to Killer You shouldn't of broken it of, you should of just talked it over with her find out what's wrong so that both of you can either fix it, or leave it be and then decide whether to move on or stay together. I don't mean to fill your head with shoulda coulda wouldas, but that's the ideal resolution in any relationship. I don't think at least, that you can drop love, like it never happened or it just faded out. I think that once loved always loved, but then again i could be wrong once again 2 cents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunman February 25, 2003 Share Gunman Member February 25, 2003 What's a "Girlfriend"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest leo February 25, 2003 Share Guest leo Guests February 25, 2003 i never thought gunman would be so insightful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunman February 25, 2003 Share Gunman Member February 25, 2003 On that note...whats a "Girl"? All I know about are computers, people who play CS, and an occasional hobo on the streets of Madison. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest [DOH]TaPe February 26, 2003 Share Guest [DOH]TaPe Guests February 26, 2003 A Friend A friend is a person whom you want to have near when you are dying. And whom you like to be with while you are living; To whom you spontaneously turn for help when you are in trouble. And who is the first to hear the good news when you have good fortune; Whose counsel you seek when you are perplexed. And whose congratulations you welcome when the perplexity is solved; In whom you can confide the secret you want no other living soul to know. Yet will never pry into your heart to discover whether there are any more secrets to be revealed; On whom you can lean when your heart aches. But who will never take advantage of your leaning; Who will get down on his knees beside you when you are down. And forget that he did so when you are on your feet again; And whose shoulder you can weep on when you are sad. And with whom you enjoy laughing when you are glad; Who has a tear on his cheek when you suffer. And a twinkle in his eye when the sun shines on you again; Who has pain in his tone when you are in distress. And melody in his voice when your heart is happy; Who admires you for your strong points. But loves you in spite of your weak ones; Who can laugh at your foibles. Without despising you for having them; Who makes allowance for your limitations. Without allowing them to obscure your talents; Who is proud of you when fortune favors you. But not ashamed of you when you fail; Who contributes to your success without claiming any share in it. Who can feel and show satisfaction when you please him. But never resentment when you disappoint him; Who will tell you the truth even when it hurts. And to whom you can tell the truth without his taking offense; Who is not ashamed to ask you a favor even at the risk of being imposed upon. Who can extend a helping hand and lighten your load Without expecting any other reward than having had the privilege of so doing; Who gives all he can whenever he can. Without ever keeping a record of what he has given; Who says the best about you when everybody else is saying the worst. Any person needs at least four such friends; Every person owes it to himself to be such a friend to at least four fellow humans. God help me to be such a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest leo February 27, 2003 Share Guest leo Guests February 27, 2003 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gOOters February 27, 2003 Share gOOters Member February 27, 2003 thats nice...but it did start out a little morbid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hitman February 27, 2003 Share Hitman Member February 27, 2003 I likes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest [DOH]TaPe February 28, 2003 Share Guest [DOH]TaPe Guests February 28, 2003 thats nice...but it did start out a little morbid Morbid? When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest leo March 1, 2003 Share Guest leo Guests March 1, 2003 very well said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xterminator March 1, 2003 Share Xterminator Member March 1, 2003 i need a girlfriend i'm lonely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest [DOH]TaPe March 1, 2003 Share Guest [DOH]TaPe Guests March 1, 2003 When you're feeling lonely, you're not alone. And yet, you are alone... so very alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brahma_Bull March 1, 2003 Share Brahma_Bull Member March 1, 2003 are u still talking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest [DOH]TaPe March 2, 2003 Share Guest [DOH]TaPe Guests March 2, 2003 are u still talking? Are you still afraid of rain? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Boy Sherman March 2, 2003 Share Guest Boy Sherman Guests March 2, 2003 damn rain hurts man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now