I use http://www.amazon.com/Creative-Labs-HS800-Fatal1ty-Headset/dp/B002DS4HTM
They were quite a bit more expensive when I bough them. the outer part completely covers my ear, so there is no pressure on my ear at all. I've thought about upgrading since they are around 4-5 years old now, but they actually sound really good and virtual surround sound that works pretty well.