Duke i dont think i have met you in there yet. some of the other guys have seen me around here and there, but i just spent like an hour at least reading all of this. i gotta admit, its hard to hear about everything, like you said..."what a rollercoaster" but hang in there and keep your faith in what you believe and know that everyone is here reading, responding, praying, all doing there own thing to support you and let you know that we are here. i dont know you but we are all brothers in christ. i will deffinately pray for her and your family. if its ok i would like to share this with the ppl in my small group at church so that they can pray for all of you too. good luck with everything and know that God is there when ever you need him!!