I liked the video Jackie I think that video says it all
So they have to wait for spit to recharge and because they're not able to attack thats griefing? Being in ghost for longer than a minute I would call griefing. Killing someone for not playing to the expectations you hold is what I would call griefing. A Spitter waiting on recharge I would call playing the game normally. Why not Slay a Hunter who misses their Pounce, same for Charger to, and instant Slay for Jockey because they're bad always, Slay Smokers who got behind and cant despawn, Slay Boomers not in the right position to boom the whole Team. Slay Tanks missing their Throws or are just a bout to charge the whole team.
You should just be able to play how you play regular 4v4, points and more players are just icing on the cake.
Of course Suicide wouldnt exist if Valve knew how to fix their bugs correctly.
Its not about getting points Its about TEAMWORK( my opinion)
I have a very low ppm and i dont consider myself good but I try like hell to be a good teammate and hopefully i do accomplish it,maybe not idk.