Er... calm down. Fact #1 - You will not get a member only server. It's a terrible idea. Let it go. Fact #2 - People are generally interested in the idea of a 'Members only' night or event. If you are so hot and bothered about it, come up with a tournament, special event, competition, whatever. Flesh it out, and approach Jackie or Crash about its feasibility.
You do have a say, and the ability to affect change. But not in regards to forcing people to pay to play on a server. That is not what we are about.
So please, do get involved, come up with monthly, weekly events that will allow you to play with the experienced members without the babysitting.
Shaftiel