this is really hard for a lot of people for some reason. awareness and listening seems to be a struggle too, you can have a guy pounced or charged like 2 feet behind someone, and they were even stumbled by the collision, but they wont turn around for a good 5 seconds
meng deserves the lifetime award for sending out the most points to people, a lot of people never send points. i only ever send points if people ask for them or if i know they will use them quickly
edit: actually i probably yell at people to tell me how many points they need more than they ask for points