It's OK - The Sims series seems pretty used to being misunderstood, even ignored, in the mainstream gaming industry. It’s undoubtedly a feminine game (“virtual dollhouse”) against masculine shoot-em-up types, the majority of games out there. (Though you can kill your Sims. Death by drowning, electrocution, starvation, eaten by the famous Cow Plant, etc. It gets weird. It’s definitely goofy). Case in point, the E3 Expo this past June, the Sims 4 barely got any attention compared to EA’s big titles like Mass Effect and Battlefield. I don’t have the link right now, but I remember one commentator saying something along the lines of being embarrassed about "admitting" he liked playing the Sims.
Plus, after the SimCity fiasco, Sims 4 will definitely *not* be online. The only really interactive thing is the Gallery where you upload your Sims and houses, and other people can download and put it in their game.
I personally like playing it for the building. I’m surprised Fatty hasn’t gotten his girls a copy (I’m guessing). It’s kind of like Minecraft in that you can creatively build things, like homes and community lots (like bars and parks, etc).
Sims 4 videos, for those interested
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KSFkcKBBMo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZmtGfTj-to&list=PLSnHrMX7SCvNtIERLfzYZ4xHXt3n5Pz8p