keep looking!
you will find what you are looking for. My older bros after graduating school were in the same position as u were in. just keep pokin away at it, the jobs are out there, but they're camping in n00b camp spots, yuh gotta check those too!
and your g/f... i was in this same boat, as im sure many other will post too
i moved away, things were good for a little while, then got progressively worse
but with her not responding to your attempted contacts, things are obviously not cool with her, but if she wont even talk to u about it, being as close to u as she is, u are better off without her man...
you have a degree. you have your close friends, the ones that matter. and most importantly, your whole life ahead of you! you WILL find job. things will turn out great, its just hard to see that during times like these. j00 can do eet !