See, the problem is that we can't have admins on 24/7. It's just not feasible. So, when no admins are on, we have to rely on our members to let us know if and when somebody requires a kick or ban.
Like Turnbull said, he had two members that he trusts sending him PMs while he was busy, so he took action. This scenario is not uncommon with our servers.
I will apologize for the members making the boyfriend comments in a derogatory manner. We don't stand for homophobic slurs either, and those members should have been kicked from the game at the very least. What I will not apologize for are our rules and the manner in which we conduct our community.
That being said, the way you came here calling the server "Butt Hurt", ridiculing us with lines like "nice work admins you totally caught the profanity user. YOUR SERVER IS SAVED!", and just generally being obnoxious with things like "I would like to request someone that is old enough to read past 3 sentences before posting, to read my post. Thank you.", doesn't lead me to believe that you really care about being unbanned.
Please refer to what crasx posted above.