EbilDustBunny January 11, 2006 Share EbilDustBunny GC Alumni January 11, 2006 Ok I just got a phone from my ex-friend... Anyways she is my ex-friend for a big reason. I haven't talker to her in like litterally 3-5 months(maybe more). She's never made admends to whatever she did to me. She still has my stuff at her place... she can keep it. Not worth the trouble. If I recorded my phone call well you would seen how I went from peppy to like silent and well silent. Begining of the phone call she didn't tell me who it was...so you can tell that i was in like a happier mood. I didn't talk and I only said one or two really short sentences. Anyways... I don't really want to post publicly whatever she did.... it's just not right. Plus I was eatign dinner which will be thrown away soon after this post. She invited me to her 21st b-day... told her I prolly had to work, but she says i'm invited anyways. But don't you think after 3-5months it's too late? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters January 11, 2006 Share stutters GC Alumni January 11, 2006 open bar? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadowman January 11, 2006 Share Shadowman Member January 11, 2006 Never too late to make amends and friends over again. Life's too short to hold grudges forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EbilDustBunny January 11, 2006 Author Share EbilDustBunny GC Alumni January 11, 2006 open bar? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes I'd like a bottle of goose and fruit juice. I dunno not worth the heart ache... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrDuke January 11, 2006 Share MrDuke Member January 11, 2006 It's easier to lose a friendship than a grudge. But the right way isn't always the easiest way. Make amends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camel_Man January 11, 2006 Share Camel_Man Member January 11, 2006 drop the grudge. rebuild the friendship. keep the dagger sharp. dont forget to twist the blade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EbilDustBunny January 11, 2006 Author Share EbilDustBunny GC Alumni January 11, 2006 (edited) On the scale of what she did... it was up around stealing and sleeping with someone elses boyfriend(girlfriend...you know vice versa). She raped my trust... and killed what ever trust I had left with other people which was already microscopic. I don't think I can rebuild a burnt bridge like that. (and i think it was 6 months) I can't just pretend like never happened. Edited January 11, 2006 by EbilDustBunny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrDuke January 11, 2006 Share MrDuke Member January 11, 2006 You don't have to rekindle the close friendship, nor do you have to forget the past. There's nothing wrong with being cautious or guarded. Extend some common courtesy at first and take it a little at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J. Dunlavy January 11, 2006 Share J. Dunlavy Member January 11, 2006 Duke says it best. Life is too short to keep conniving women around. There are too many other women to keep cheaters and whores around. Personally, I would burn this bridge of yours since, with you not even attending this party of hers, it is already causing you grief enough to post about it. A band-aid must come off with one fell swoop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoMamma January 11, 2006 Share YoMamma Member January 11, 2006 Ok I just got a phone from my ex-friend... Anyways she is my ex-friend for a big reason. I haven't talker to her in like litterally 3-5 months(maybe more). She's never made admends to whatever she did to me. She still has my stuff at her place... she can keep it. Not worth the trouble. If I recorded my phone call well you would seen how I went from peppy to like silent and well silent. Begining of the phone call she didn't tell me who it was...so you can tell that i was in like a happier mood. I didn't talk and I only said one or two really short sentences. Anyways... I don't really want to post publicly whatever she did.... it's just not right. Plus I was eatign dinner which will be thrown away soon after this post. She invited me to her 21st b-day... told her I prolly had to work, but she says i'm invited anyways. But don't you think after 3-5months it's too late? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> nah... never too late to get back with old friends, even if there used to be trouble. People change and sometimes for the better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witt January 11, 2006 Share witt Member January 11, 2006 Give her one of your patented TMP bursts to the face...that'll make you feel better. And hey, if you don't have a TMP, I know a guy on the South Side...just drop my name... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saris January 11, 2006 Share Saris Member January 11, 2006 I know from a hard life myself, that I have severed ties with both family and friends because there are things that are simply just unforgiveable. I know I'll never forgive them for it because many of these grudges have gone on now for 6+ years, and the distance from them I find, only increases the pettiness I see in their actions, so here's my advice to you: I have forgiven people and let them go based on one thing - Am I better off with, or without them in my life? Only those that can benefit you, whether physically or emotionally, should be a part of your life if you have to overcome some sort of obstacle to be back with them again. I know my post is a little harsh, but from an outside perspective, it's always easy to say "love and peace", but that is not always the reality when it comes to dealing with those that SHOULD be yourfriends and family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheReverend(c) January 11, 2006 Share TheReverend(c) Member January 11, 2006 On the scale of what she did... it was up around stealing and sleeping with someone elses boyfriend(girlfriend...you know vice versa). She raped my trust... and killed what ever trust I had left with other people which was already microscopic. I don't think I can rebuild a burnt bridge like that. (and i think it was 6 months) I can't just pretend like never happened. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I assumed it had somthing to do with a guy, money or another "friend". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benjester January 11, 2006 Share benjester Member January 11, 2006 If this person was a good friend at one point, I would say that trying to admend things is worth it. People make mistakes, we all have. It isn't easy to forgive. I would never advocate forgetting either... take it a step at a time, see if she is trying to work up to an apology. Even if the friendship is never rekindled, you will be a better person (and feel better about yourself) for giving her the chance to apologize. I'm also one that has been burned several times, and don't trust people all that much. BUt I always force myself to at least give the chance to the person to make a move... this may be her first move. In the end, it is up to you, but as others said above, life is truly too short to live with a grudge... allow her to apologize, and make a clean break if you so choose. If she doesn't say anything, lay into her about it, and walk away feeling good about yourself... just my 2 cents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ephemeral January 11, 2006 Share ephemeral Member January 11, 2006 Never too late to make amends and friends over again. Life's too short to hold grudges forever. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> true true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anonymo January 11, 2006 Share anonymo Member January 11, 2006 I say screw it, she's obviously not worth more than 3 seconds of your time, making amends might land you worse off than you were before and she obviously doesn't deserve your continuing friendship. So don't hold a grudge, don't hold anything, block her number and send black roses to her on her birthday... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Playaa January 11, 2006 Share Playaa Member January 11, 2006 Duke r teh sm4rt. listen to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lazarus January 11, 2006 Share lazarus Member January 11, 2006 just ask youself if this friendship is stronger than the bond bw you and that other girl/boy. i had a best friend's gf that cheated on him with another good friend. but us guys are still friends and that girl is history. stronger bonds....choose. but choose wisely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackieChan January 12, 2006 Share JackieChan GC Alumni January 12, 2006 Dang... women know how to hold grudges. =P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatty January 12, 2006 Share Fatty GC Founder January 12, 2006 pm me what she did! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anonymo January 12, 2006 Share anonymo Member January 12, 2006 pm me what she did! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good luck there buddy... (foward it to me if she tells you!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters January 12, 2006 Share stutters GC Alumni January 12, 2006 i STILL say go for the open bar. "we're going streaking up through the quad and into the gymnasium! come on everybody, come on! snoop, snoop-a-loop! no, it's cool, it's cool, i'm cool. bring... bring your green hat. let's go, come on everybody we're goin'." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EbilDustBunny January 12, 2006 Author Share EbilDustBunny GC Alumni January 12, 2006 (edited) pm me what she did! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's too big your head might explode... still want it? oh wells, take cover. please don't forward without asking... Edited January 12, 2006 by EbilDustBunny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackieChan January 12, 2006 Share JackieChan GC Alumni January 12, 2006 pm me what she did! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's too big your head might explode... still want it? oh wells, take cover. please don't forward without asking... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ahh, send it to me too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGeek January 12, 2006 Share TheGeek Member January 12, 2006 So why did she invite you to her b-day party if she said mean things to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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