stutters April 22, 2008 Author Share stutters GC Alumni April 22, 2008 hm, i think you guys might have been right on this one. while i was in the shower, she came home from work, packed a suitcase, and is at her mother's in hudson. she called from their phone to tell me to grow up. i thought it was funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akaM2 April 22, 2008 Share akaM2 Member April 22, 2008 She's not at her mothers. but She says hi from Milwaukee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters April 22, 2008 Author Share stutters GC Alumni April 22, 2008 dude come on, i'm serious. i think she is, too. *shrug* when life gives you lemons, uh, do something. brb, running to the store for sum beerz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragonfly April 22, 2008 Share dragonfly Member April 22, 2008 *shrug* when life gives you lemons, uh, do something. Quote of the year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akaM2 April 22, 2008 Share akaM2 Member April 22, 2008 Quote of the year. best response of the last minute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saris April 22, 2008 Share Saris Member April 22, 2008 As much as everyone was joking around, the truth rings through a bit, huh? Even though its manly and boastful to say "I'll just do it my way and if she don't like it, tuff!", like I said, it only leads to a confrontation. I can't believe I'm saying this, but, DR. PHIL would say "If something isn't working, don't keep doing it". Change your strat right away. Honestly, maybe its just me, but I found every time I acted like a victim, rather than trying to control a girl, their guilt usually makes them see things my way. That's the only advice I can give, cause its all I've ever done. It's no Maddox method, but like I said, it works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clueless April 22, 2008 Share Clueless GC Alumni April 22, 2008 Hmm..well, if you are serious and this isnt one of your jokes....then yeah...yer screwed. Your actions were most definately viewed as an act of aggression and war is about to be declared. If you love this girl and want to be with her....prepare to make some concessions....i.e...eat crow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGeek April 22, 2008 Share TheGeek Member April 22, 2008 Act selfless and hopefully she will mirror. Why declare war before talking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ConGregation April 22, 2008 Share ConGregation Member April 22, 2008 If frank communication and reasonable discussion can't resolve issues like this, then I hate to say it but your better off without her. What you did stupid. Always treat your girl like a princess. If she doesn't treat you like a prince than it's not worth the trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farmerisme April 22, 2008 Share farmerisme Member April 22, 2008 Oh there is no way he is serious so can we quit with the serious 'me and Dr Phil say to talk it out and share some cookies'. ROFL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters April 22, 2008 Author Share stutters GC Alumni April 22, 2008 Oh there is no way he is serious so can we quit with the serious 'me and Dr Phil say to talk it out and share some cookies'. ROFL. win. i gotta pull the plug before this gets out of control (everything = joke). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demoner April 22, 2008 Share Demoner Member April 22, 2008 you went way over the top sj, and if you actually want to still be with her you better apologize for going so crazy without confronting her before you did such rash actions. you'd better explain them too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fatty April 22, 2008 Share Fatty GC Founder April 22, 2008 guys. this is a serious post. very serious business. thanks. now THIS is one of the funniest posts I've seen from you in a long time! baahahahahah! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saris April 22, 2008 Share Saris Member April 22, 2008 (No wonder he's got nearly 10k posts...) But I'll admit to being completely fooled, after all, some members have posted far more personal topics before. But that certainly is ... a lot of time on your hands ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters April 22, 2008 Author Share stutters GC Alumni April 22, 2008 yeah, i got this theo term paper i just really don't want to write. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mohawk April 22, 2008 Share mohawk Member April 22, 2008 m2, ignore that PM i sent asking for ms. sj's number.. apparently it was all a joke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwEEziL April 22, 2008 Share dwEEziL Member April 22, 2008 OH COME ON!!!! It's sj! It HAD to be a joke. LOL. Nice job sj. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anonymo April 22, 2008 Share anonymo Member April 22, 2008 apparently it was all a joke Yeah but on whom? PM me for the number. Also, shame on anyone who believed this...honestly, you all need to lurk moar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boiler April 22, 2008 Share boiler Member April 22, 2008 I believe I called this one early on as soon as the "I cut her cell phone off" part came out. You're getting easier to catch sj you all need to lurk moar. qft Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stutters April 22, 2008 Author Share stutters GC Alumni April 22, 2008 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xterminator April 22, 2008 Share Xterminator Member April 22, 2008 well so far sounds like the g/f gets an F for effort. But seriously i'd approach her in a calm manor and say, hey (insert name here) i want to talk to you about something. Tell her that she's not holding up her end of the deal (in a nice way) and that you can't cover her expenses. If it means that she has to get another job, so be it. People need to learn financial responsibility. Dont let her keep falling back on her payments because then she'll see it's alright and never pay you back until you confront her about it. I had a similar situation with my best friend, i lent him over $200 a couple years ago and told him "take your time" to pay it back. In those 2 years i saw him buy up lotsa stuff that costed a lot of money yet he never paid me back. So finally I just put my foot down and told him, dude you need to know your responsibilities, pay of your debts first then go spend for fun. He paid up....no problem. I'm sure if you approach her in a mature manor with good demeanour she'll respect what you have to say and if she doesn't just tell her to kick rocks..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boiler April 22, 2008 Share boiler Member April 22, 2008 take heart sj, you're still reeling them in though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demoner April 22, 2008 Share Demoner Member April 22, 2008 i say in retaliation sj gets thrown down a flight of stairs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saris April 22, 2008 Share Saris Member April 22, 2008 you all need to lurk moar. QFH...Quoted for Hypocrisy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allanon April 22, 2008 Share Allanon Member April 22, 2008 When god gives you lemons... you find a new god! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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